{"id":36685,"date":"2020-11-24T14:28:50","date_gmt":"2020-11-24T14:28:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/demo.divi-pixel.com\/agency\/2020\/11\/30\/business-trends-2020-copy\/"},"modified":"2026-01-20T13:39:42","modified_gmt":"2026-01-20T13:39:42","slug":"leadership-and-mindfulness-a-powerful-alliance-for-a-new-way-of-making-decisions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/maiway.fr\/en\/leadership-and-mindfulness-a-powerful-alliance-for-a-new-way-of-making-decisions\/","title":{"rendered":"Leadership and mindfulness: a powerful alliance for making different decisions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"101\" data-end=\"628\">In organisations, speed is often celebrated, presence less so. Yet it is presence that makes speed intelligent. In individual and team coaching, I observe that <strong data-start=\"298\" data-end=\"319\">full awareness<\/strong> is not a spiritual luxury: it's a spiritual <strong data-start=\"359\" data-end=\"383\">strategic advantage<\/strong>. It allows you to see more clearly, to really listen, to make the right decisions - especially when the complexity mounts. My guiding principle remains the same: <strong data-start=\"531\" data-end=\"563\">aligning head, heart and action<\/strong> so that leadership gains in density without losing in humanity.<\/p>\n<h2 data-start=\"630\" data-end=\"685\">Why mindfulness changes leadership<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"686\" data-end=\"1250\">Mindfulness causes attention to return <strong data-start=\"738\" data-end=\"759\">here and now<\/strong>, instead of drifting into autopilot. This simple return has three major effects when you're in a leadership position. Firstly, the <strong data-start=\"878\" data-end=\"888\">clarity<\/strong> We can better distinguish between the fact, the interpretation and the emotion that colours the judgement. Then the <strong data-start=\"984\" data-end=\"1010\">emotional stability<\/strong> Instead of being swept away by fear, anger or impatience, we can be more proactive. <strong data-start=\"1088\" data-end=\"1101\">go to<\/strong> and choose. Finally the <strong data-start=\"1123\" data-end=\"1142\">quality of the link<\/strong> Full presence makes conversations safer, decisions more shared and execution smoother.<\/p>\n<h2 data-start=\"1252\" data-end=\"1307\">What this means in practical terms for decision-making<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"1308\" data-end=\"1871\">Deciding differently means slowing down <strong data-start=\"1342\" data-end=\"1359\">at the right time<\/strong> to accelerate <strong data-start=\"1375\" data-end=\"1393\">in the right place<\/strong>. A minute's presence before an important arbitration is often enough to bring out the option that no-one dared to name - or to confirm that it's time to say no. In a tense meeting, thirty seconds of landing reduces defences and rekindles listening. In a 1:1 meeting, ten seconds of silence after a key phrase allows the other person to find a solution. <strong data-start=\"1737\" data-end=\"1744\">its<\/strong> words rather than using your own. Mindfulness puts <strong data-start=\"1815\" data-end=\"1825\">rhythm<\/strong> listening, discernment, decision-making, commitment.<\/p>\n<h2 data-start=\"1873\" data-end=\"1919\">Express practices for executives in a hurry<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"1920\" data-end=\"2656\">The key is not the duration, it's the <strong data-start=\"1956\" data-end=\"1970\">regularity<\/strong>. Three micro-practices that can be incorporated into any day, without the need for any special equipment or posture. 1) <strong data-start=\"2078\" data-end=\"2086\">STOP<\/strong> (30 to 60 s) : S = Stop, T = Find breath, O = Observe (body, emotions, thought), P = Continue differently (a simple choice). To be used before a difficult call or a hot decision. 2) <strong data-start=\"2290\" data-end=\"2297\">3\u00d73<\/strong> (45 secs): three slow breaths, then three quick checks - what's done, what's true, what's useful now. Ideal between meetings. 3) <strong data-start=\"2483\" data-end=\"2504\">Anchoring 5-4-3-2-1<\/strong> (60 secs): name 5 things seen, 4 things heard, 3 body sensations, 2 smells\/tastes, 1 intention. Resets attention and reduces internal noise.<\/p>\n<h2 data-start=\"2658\" data-end=\"2740\">Dealing with strong emotions without spilling the beans: the operational version of RAIN<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"2741\" data-end=\"3294\">When the emotional charge rises, I suggest <strong data-start=\"2788\" data-end=\"2796\">RAIN<\/strong> in 2 minutes. R = <strong data-start=\"2815\" data-end=\"2828\">Recognize<\/strong> Name the emotion (\u00abirritated\u00bb, \u00abworried\u00bb). A = <strong data-start=\"2881\" data-end=\"2890\">Allow<\/strong> Accept that it's there for a few moments without pushing it away or acting on it. I = <strong data-start=\"2969\" data-end=\"2984\">Investigate<\/strong> where it's lodged in the body, what I need now (information, delay, support). N = <strong data-start=\"3082\" data-end=\"3112\">Nurture\/Non-identification<\/strong> I <strong data-start=\"3118\" data-end=\"3133\">am not<\/strong> emotion, I <strong data-start=\"3148\" data-end=\"3163\">the crossbar<\/strong>. Only then do we talk, decide and write. This micro-practice avoids regrettable e-mails and meetings that get out of hand.<\/p>\n<h2 data-start=\"3296\" data-end=\"3375\">Shorter, truer meetings: landing and exit protocol<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"3376\" data-end=\"3875\">At the beginning : <strong data-start=\"3387\" data-end=\"3414\">30 seconds of presence<\/strong> (\u00abarrive, take three breaths, make yourself available\u00bb), then a guided <strong data-start=\"3490\" data-end=\"3524\">opening tour in one sentence<\/strong> What's alive for me on the subject. In the middle: <strong data-start=\"3580\" data-end=\"3604\">30-second pause<\/strong> if the discussion gets heated (silence + refocus on the fact\/need\/decision). At the end: <strong data-start=\"3696\" data-end=\"3717\">membership minute<\/strong> where everyone writes down their commitment (who\/what\/when) and checks the dependencies. This simple protocol reduces the overall length of meetings and increases execution.<\/p>\n<h2 data-start=\"3877\" data-end=\"3932\">Decide differently: slow window \/ fast window<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"3933\" data-end=\"4375\">Not everything requires 1 hour of meditation. I suggest a <strong data-start=\"3990\" data-end=\"4000\">dual mode<\/strong> simple. <strong data-start=\"4009\" data-end=\"4027\">Quick window<\/strong> (\u2264 2 min): STOP + options in 3 columns (gains\/risks\/next step), \u00abtestable in 7 days\u00bb decision. <strong data-start=\"4135\" data-end=\"4152\">Slow window<\/strong> (10-20 min): 60 second silence, clarification round, impact card, decision with dated conditions for revision. Mindfulness is used here as a <strong data-start=\"4302\" data-end=\"4339\">a safeguard against haste<\/strong> and <strong data-start=\"4346\" data-end=\"4360\">thruster<\/strong> for action.<\/p>\n<h2 data-start=\"4377\" data-end=\"4432\">Mental charge and energy: three lasting rituals<\/h2>\n<ol data-start=\"4433\" data-end=\"4961\">\n<li data-start=\"4433\" data-end=\"4961\">\n<p data-start=\"4436\" data-end=\"4961\"><strong data-start=\"4436\" data-end=\"4459\">Calendar buffers<\/strong> 10 minutes between two meetings to surface (breathe, take note, decide on the next micro-action). 2) <strong data-start=\"4579\" data-end=\"4605\">Revue hebdo consciente<\/strong> (20 min): look back over the week with three questions - what gave me energy, what took it away, what am I stopping\/continuing\/starting. 3) <strong data-start=\"4776\" data-end=\"4796\">Careful walking<\/strong> (5-10 min): between two blocks, walk without a phone, synchronise breathing and steps. These rituals prevent exhaustion and maintain the quality of attention.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h2 data-start=\"4963\" data-end=\"5015\">Simple indicators for objective benefits<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"5016\" data-end=\"5387\">Average length of meetings (target -15 %), percentage of decisions recorded and implemented, cycle time for a key request, number of relational incidents resolved at the right level in less than a week, score of <strong data-start=\"5228\" data-end=\"5254\">psychological safety<\/strong> (pulse in 3 questions), perception of <strong data-start=\"5293\" data-end=\"5303\">clarity<\/strong> in the team. What we measure <strong data-start=\"5338\" data-end=\"5352\">improves<\/strong> ; what we're celebrating <strong data-start=\"5375\" data-end=\"5386\">is anchored<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h2 data-start=\"5389\" data-end=\"5426\">30-day training plan<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"5427\" data-end=\"5893\">Week 1: practice <strong data-start=\"5449\" data-end=\"5457\">STOP<\/strong> twice a day + 30 sec landing at the start of the meeting. Week 2: introducing <strong data-start=\"5543\" data-end=\"5551\">RAIN<\/strong> strong emotions and the <strong data-start=\"5580\" data-end=\"5601\">membership minute<\/strong> at the end of the meeting. Week 3: testing the <strong data-start=\"5643\" data-end=\"5662\">dual mode decision<\/strong> (fast vs. slow window) on two real subjects. Week 4: hold a <strong data-start=\"5734\" data-end=\"5760\">revue hebdo consciente<\/strong> and choose a ritual that will last (opening silence, buffers, walking). The objective is not perfection, but the <strong data-start=\"5879\" data-end=\"5892\">constance<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h2 data-start=\"5895\" data-end=\"5944\">Frequent pitfalls (and how to overcome them)<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"5945\" data-end=\"6390\">\u00abWe don't have time\u00bb: start with <strong data-start=\"5985\" data-end=\"6000\">30 seconds<\/strong>, no more. \u00abIt feels strange\u00bb: say it simply (\u00abit's new, we're trying it out, we'll adjust\u00bb). \u00abWe confuse silence with control\u00bb: banish the punitive use of silence; remind people that it serves the purpose of control. <strong data-start=\"6193\" data-end=\"6212\">quality of the link<\/strong> and the <strong data-start=\"6219\" data-end=\"6231\">lucidity<\/strong> of the decision. \u00abIt just doesn't add up\u00bb: linking each practice to a <strong data-start=\"6296\" data-end=\"6315\">existing ritual<\/strong> (starting a meeting, going through a door, before writing a sensitive email).<\/p>\n<h2 data-start=\"6392\" data-end=\"6407\">Conclusion<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"6408\" data-end=\"6973\">Mindfulness isn't just a break in the schedule: it's a way of life. <strong data-start=\"6479\" data-end=\"6502\">quality of presence<\/strong> that you bring to everything you do. It makes you clearer, more stable and more powerful. Deciding differently isn't about deciding more slowly; it's about deciding better. <strong data-start=\"6688\" data-end=\"6706\">more accurately<\/strong> - at the right time, for the right reasons, with people who really feel involved. If you had to keep just one thing from tomorrow : <strong data-start=\"6861\" data-end=\"6921\">30 seconds of presence before each important decision<\/strong>. It's short, it's free, and it often changes everything.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dans les organisations, la vitesse est souvent c\u00e9l\u00e9br\u00e9e, la pr\u00e9sence l\u2019est moins. Pourtant, c\u2019est la pr\u00e9sence qui rend la vitesse intelligente. En coaching individuel et d\u2019\u00e9quipe, j\u2019observe que la pleine conscience n\u2019est pas un luxe spirituel : c\u2019est un avantage strat\u00e9gique. Elle permet de voir plus clair, d\u2019\u00e9couter r\u00e9ellement, de d\u00e9cider avec justesse \u2014 surtout [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":36682,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"Leadership & pleine conscience : d\u00e9cider autrement | MaiWay","_seopress_titles_desc":"La pr\u00e9sence rend la vitesse intelligente. La pleine conscience apporte clart\u00e9, stabilit\u00e9 \u00e9motionnelle et qualit\u00e9 de lien. 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